A trip to the moon~ or just one of those things?
There's no such thing as, "falling in love." We cannot LOVE someone, until we get far more information about 'em and with the passing of time ,come to know them better~ or what we feel for them, is merely sexual attraction or infatuation. This is NEVER the basis for a richly enduring, nourishing love affair.
Some men and women try to make another fall in love with them by over-giving to the object of their affection. This is literally an attempt to BUY someone's love, which never works.
You must allow someone to GROW INTO loving you. It takes time, it takes genuine and healthy self-esteem on your part, and it takes common sense understanding to accept that nobody can truly love you, if deprived of the chance of gradually getting to KNOW you. (This does not mean flooding them with information about you, your family, your hobbies or career. This merely means letting them observe you and your behaviors in various settings and situations, and determine for themselves, if they can start respecting, admiring and caring for you!).
If you try to MAKE someone love you by over-giving to them or doing for them, you're trying to control and manipulate their emotions (how dare you!). This is a Borderline Personality Disorder trait that's part of their seduction routine!
You cannot MAKE someone love you, regardless of your romantic agenda for that person OR how much your very fragile sense of WORTH wants or demands it! Over-giving (to anyone) is a manipulation tactic! It's used to influence how they regard you, and it's never going to give you a sense of how someone really feels about you.
IF you feel a need to compensate for your crippled self-esteem in this way, you need highly-skilled professional core trauma repair~ because no matter HOW much you've accomplished during your lifetime, there's still a little boy or girl living inside you, who's never felt lovable or good enough.