ACCENTUATE THE POSITIVE, ELIMINATE THE NEGATIVE, LATCH ONTO THE AFFIRMATIVE~ AND DON'T MESS WITH MR. IN-BETWEEN.

Give Borderlines an inch, and they'll always demand a foot. There is no inner emotional framework for a Borderline to feel satisfied or content with what they have.

This is demonstrated acutely by the alphabet soup community. They're so desperately hungry for acceptance and attention, they literally cannot stop pushing for it from the rest of us, even if it means garnering our disdain.

The truth is, ANY attention for a Borderline, feels better than no attention at all. This is true for young children as well, which we KNOW severely under-developed Borderlines actually are.

You cannot PLEASE a Borderline. They are bottomless pits of acute need for praise, validation and confirmation that they are acceptable, because they never received these vital supplies as infants or young children, and living with these deficits lifelong, have intensified core shame; "I'm not good enough or lovable."

The alphabet (lbgtq.....) soup community insatiably CRAVES your attention. If they fail to get your approval, they'll push harder for it, because their flailing sense of self deeply DEPENDS on their ability to feel equal to others, and okay about themselves.

Anyone who is confident, centered and self-actualized NEVER feels a need to brag about it or flaunt his/her/it's attributes! For instance, you KNOW you're with an inadequate, deeply insecure male who TALKS about his sexual prowess when ya meet him... and you foolishly risk finding out he's a premature ejaculator.

These facts are obvious to anyone who has even a modicum of psychological savvy. Tragically, very few do, even if they work as "psychotherapists." Nobody goes to school to learn how to be a therapist. The few who are gifted and equipped to help others heal, go to school to LEGITIMIZE what they've been doing lifelong, often within other work venues.

Twitterlings commonly re-post outrageous alphabet soup offerings, because they wanna show how ludicrous these poor souls on social media are. This is a huge mistake, because they're literally feeding the Attention Monster aspect in members of these trans cults, and making the problem bigger than it needs to be.

Metaphysically speaking, that which we give our focus and attention to, is that which we create more of. Methodically squeezing off the flow of attention to these desperately unhappy folks, sends the more effective message, and that is:

We do not approve, sanction nor pander to your overwhelming need for attention. We do not hate or despise you~ we simply feel indifference. We give our attention to far more productive pursuits that nurture and codify our own peaceful, happy existence.

You are welcome to your lifestyle to whatever extent it is gratifying to you, and we respect that~ but in short, you are insignificant in the grand scheme of our happy, more traditional existences, and simply fail to show up on our radar.

May inner-peace be with you.