Do YOU know the meaning of Friendship?
They say, "if you want something done, ask a busy person." I did, and he instantly agreed to help~ but never took time away from his personal desires and agenda, to assist me.
When you want a friendship to endure, it occasionally means inconveniencing yourself to respond to another's need~ or it ain't a real friendship. People show you pretty soon after meeting em, who they really are.
Those with genuine integrity and character will help you when ya ask for something that's important to you. Others merely give you lip service, but don't follow through. These are not the people who DESERVE your friendship!
QUIT settling for scraps from those who cannot and will not give you more of themselves. That's a fool's errand, and you'll keep getting the stick end of the lollipop, because alas~ how we do ANYTHING, is how we do EVERYTHING, and humans are fundamentally resistant to growth and change.