Is it True Love, or just Great Sex?
For every man who "thinks with his dick," there's a woman who's thinking with her cunt. I see this demonstrated in TV shows and movies ('cause art imitates life) all the frigging time.
Last night I caught up with Law and Order, SVU (SPOILER ALERT!!!). A couple's daughter was abducted, and the parents seemed unconcerned (can we sterilize these folks BEFORE they're old enough to conceive a baby?). The wife had been having an affair with the kidnapper, and the husband had allowed homosexual advances by the same man, who'd targeted the couple's 14 year old daughter (to satisfy his prurient interests) for 2.5 years prior.
This dude inserted himself into the life of this couple thru their church, and was (pardon the expression) a Jesus-freak pedophile. The mother's denial of his wrongdoing was over the top. She'd formed an emotional and sexual bond with this child molester, and couldn't see him as anything but lofty in character. At this point, I'm yelling at my TV screen, calling her a dumb twat!
THEN, in Law and Order Organized Crime, another of these mishaps occurs, though we viewers aren't privy to it, unless we're paying close attention:
The young gal whose name I can't even find on the Web, but who works with the crime team and plays a major role in this series, has sex with a guy she's kept at length for awhile, due to his unsavory past. He basically ghosts her afterward, and she not only shows up at his apt. apologizing (for being a little crazy) thru a closed entry door, she's bought him a pair of pricey sneakers he's told her are "impossible" to find, and (having found them in abundance at a neighborhood shoe outlet) leaves 'em on his doorstep!
It never occurs to her to realize he's not only lied, he's ghosted her after their first sexual encounter!
Case in point, when ya give a gal pleasurable feelings that flood her body and brain with chemicals that are addictive, common sense, rationality and reason fly out the fucking window! They fail to see the Big Picture, and take stock of all the details and behaviors of a person that should warn them of DANGER AHEAD.
I can't help but believe upcoming episodes will show us how much it hurts when this little gal is dropped on her head by the dude, and the ludicrous amount of betrayals and inconsistencies she's willing to overlook, brush aside and remain BLIND to, just 'cause she's craving more 'good times' in bed with this jerk!
This kinda 'entertainment' leaves me feeling like women can be the dumbest creatures on the planet. I'll bet you've known one or two of 'em among YOUR circle of friends, haven't ya??
Bottom line: When you have sexual relations with someone, no matter how dysfunctional you suspect him or her to be AND how emotionally cautious about it you are, there's a bonding process that happens, because all those special chemicals flooding your system are ADDICTIVE, and there are precious few females who are capable of separating sex and love!