I dunno. Maybe I’m too bright for my own good. I’m thinkin’ the more courage and tenacity we have to heal, grow and evolve, the fewer people we can admire and respect.
I’ve always told my clients, as you get healthier emotionally, your circle of friends will inevitably shrink. You’ll no longer be vibrating at their frequency, nor they yours.
You will desire greener pastures, and want to surround yourself with others who MATCH your level of character, integrity and morality. They aren’t a dime a dozen, but your efforts to find and engage ‘em will be rewarded.
When ya learn to swim in the deep end of the pool, you can’t help but notice how droves of people are perfectly content wading in the shallow end. You will feel both sadness and relief from this observance.
Personal evolution is a deliberate CHOICE. We either decide to take it on, or we keep circling the drain with the same unresolved issues, lifetime after lifetime. What DO you wanna schlep into your next life? Might it be more satisfying and rewarding than this one’s been? REAL wisdom is cumulative. Count on whatever amount of it you gain during this go-round, to remain in all that follow.
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My father would have agreed with you on this wise advice. He told me that as I got older the number of true friends I would have would be the same as the fingers on my hand. If I was lucky. And I have been. Death has only cheated me out of one and madness another. Thank you for the reminder.
I agree 200% with you