There's a lid for every pot (physically speaking)~ so why are millions going under the knife?!

Beautiful women are the most insecure of all. Trust me, when I was in the beauty business, gorgeous, model-perfect clients routinely complained about their looks. I was insecure in my younger years, so I could relate. Ironically enough, men are often intimidated by beautiful women and are afraid to approach them, for fear of rejection.

Lots of drop-dead gorgeous women sit all alone in bars and coffee houses, just hoping someone will walk over to ‘em and say hello. Have you ever noticed these magnificent looking gals out with not-so attractive men?? These guys are willing to take the risk of being shot down, ‘cause they’ve learned that most “10’s” are lonely, and might welcome the company~ and besides, a confident man is an aphrodisiac to women.

It took many years for me to cultivate self-esteem. I’d sensed it had to be an Inside Job, because whatever ya do to the outside of you, doesn’t foundationally alter what’s happening (emotionally) on the inside of you. Oh, there may be a brief period of novelty that can feel celebratory, but it doesn’t last.

Physically speaking, I was a late bloomer. All my adolescent girlfriends had breasts and had gotten their periods, long before either showed up for me. I finally started menstruating a month before my 15th birthday. HOORAY!!! My dad and stepmom almost hung a banner outside our house to announce the momentous event!

I’d prayed every night for years at that point, for my flat chest to sprout some semblance of secondary female characteristics~ and in my high school junior year, this (thankfully) occurred as well. I was practically an overnight sensation! What’s important to note here, is that soon after I’d developed breasts, I took ‘em for granted. The novelty of having ‘em wore off pretty fast. Noting this, was rather shocking to me~ but also wisdom-enhancing.

You may have experienced something similar, when you finally bought that hot automobile you always dreamed of having, or the magnificent home you (at last) had enough money to purchase. Maybe it was making your first $100,000 or Million. Perhaps it was a diamond ring you lusted for when ya fantasized about getting engaged, or a high-priced elite wrist watch you’ve always wanted. Maybe, it’s a baby~ the one human you’ve always believed would finally love you “unconditionally.” The thrill in any case, is always short-lived, because reality never quite lives up to fantasy, except in children’s fairy tales.

Many more women have difficulties and complications from breast augmentation than we ever hear about. I think it’s because there’s a shame response they experience for having done something irreversible to their body, when it doesn’t work out well. Can you imagine how emotionally and psychologically agonizing this must be??

Silicone implants have been known to rupture, sending toxic sludge thru the body and causing cancerous tumors, immune deficiency diseases and other life-threatening, debilitating concerns. If one already struggles with physiological conditions, surgeries tend to exacerbate them.

Saline bags are safer for breast augmentation, yet scar tissue becomes stiff and has to be broken up manually (VERY painful) with either implant option. On another note, nobody ever considers the emotional and practical repercussions for lovers/spouses or children in the home, during all those painful post-op months! The surgical patient’s needs far exceed ordinary day-to-day demands, due to profound discomfort and fatigue associated with the body trying to heal itself. Nobody even mentions this part, to gals (or their partners) who want bigger tits.

You may not choose to believe this, but in private ‘social studies’ research, I’ve encountered many men who’ve stated they preferred small breasted women to others… and many more, who “hate how false boobs feel.” Thus, what looks beautiful, may not always feel natural or pleasant to the touch.

We all have physical characteristics we’re particularly drawn to. Some females love body hair and big hands on men, others prefer little or no body hair on their male lovers, and small hands aren’t a turnoff for ‘em. Some men want a full-figured female. Others prefer super-skinny lovers, with not much meat on their bones. There are males who love and seek out obese women (I’m still working on understanding this one, but I have a psychological theory or two). There are leg men, ass men, breast men, face men and everything in-between. In short, there’s a lid for every pot~ and “perfection” is a subjective state of mind, and always will be.

Just like the mRNA vaccines were under-tested and have caused instant death in thousands of individuals under 30 years of age, vanity in this case, has females thinking these plastic surgery procedures are relatively easy and safe... but what actually drives one’s incessant need for this?

I've known women who were addicted to plastic surgeries. They were not happy with themselves, never felt confident, never felt lovable and were always insecure, due to having been raised by a Borderline Personality Disordered mother.

When one doesn't feel good enough or loveable from infancy onward, one’s inclined to feel rather desperate to find the 'magic key' (whatever it is~ even if it’s sexual reassignment surgery) that will change how they feel about themselves. We see this issue manifested among people who get numerous body piercings and tattoos, or try to alter their looks with surgical procedures that 'promise' to raise self-worth~ but sadly, never do. Again, the excited sense of ‘novelty’ when changing one’s physical veneer, is ephemeral.

Happiness is an Inside Job. Authentic self-esteem takes time and unrelenting, diligent effort to grow and establish, particularly if we were born to a woman who was incapable of forging and solidifying a warm, loving, nourishing attachment bond to us, in our first days and weeks of life.

The question then, begs to be asked: Do I really NEED this procedure to feel better about myself~ or might highly focused emotional growth and self-worth building work with a uniquely skilled professional, be a far less painful and dangerous way to gain full self-acceptance, and achieve lasting contentment and joy?