Got a call from an old lover three years ago. It'd been 18 years since we’d had contact. He's one of two ex's who's suffered horrible, life-altering physical pain and incapacity due (in my opinion) to boatloads of unresolved emotional shit from childhood.
These terrible fates strike me as tragic, because I have always believed they could have been averted, had these two men awakened to their inner pain much earlier in life, and gotten the right kind of help to heal and resolve it.
For many years, I observed physical ailments and discomfort literally resolving itself, when my clients began to heal emotionally. The Body, Mind and Spirit are inseparable, and unless they can work in concert with each other, physical pain results~ just to bring our attention to it.
When our early life is so shitty that we must dissociate from painful emotions just to survive, this becomes our way of life. Emotional pain does not go away, just because we choose to ignore it. It predictably asserts itself IN THE BODY. Funny thing is, while many of us have learned to kill-off and bury painful emotions, we cannot refuse to feel PHYSICAL pain. It's with us and demands our attention~ sometimes, 24/7.
Some poor souls live with unrelenting physical agony. I currently know several men for whom this applies, regardless of how many surgeries they've had to "correct" their excruciating symptoms.
I'm not trying to scare you, if you've got unfinished business from your early life, and ya don't know where to turn for help (even IF you really want it). What I DO wanna leave you with, is that miracles can't happen for ya, as long as you're lugging around that old shit, which informs on all your decisions and life choices~ and determines whether you are inclined to be Self-Constructive, or Self-Destructive.
It makes you believe you deserve merely to survive, not Thrive. It makes you create obstacles for yourself, due to your deep, unshakable belief that "life has to be hard." It forces you to make self-sabotaging choices in every realm of your life, because JOY and all the pleasurable feelings attached to it, are so completely foreign to your existence, they frighten you when they begin showing up.
Are You always waiting for the other shoe to drop, when you feel a “little too good”?? This is merely ancient childhood programming, that must be dismantled, for you to create a life filled with Happiness, Contentment and real $uccess.
Many of my clients have been healed not just emotionally, but physically, as well. It's truly what’s kept me fascinated with and dedicated to doing my wellness work for as long as I have.
A little known fact about Healers: We are overjoyed to witness people’s recovery from pain! This is never an ‘ego’ trip for us. They’re simply opportunities to feel grateful and delighted that we’ve served as a conduit who’s helped positively change another’s reality~ while trusting these glorious outcomes will endure lifelong for ‘em.
God handles the healing. We who are gifted with life experience, wisdom, and the ability to disseminate it, are kinda like Santa’s little helpers that make the goods accessible to you. :~)
Thank you for insightful and truthful article today.