"Will I EVER be able to receive the love I've needed?"
Hope springs eternal~ but how long can we hold out for the prize?
Most Lesbians are subconsciously looking for the love from Mother, they were never able to secure as infants and young children. This quest is extremely common among all humans, not just homosexuals.
With each new female attachment, hope springs eternal that THIS relationship will finally meet their primal needs (for affection and warmth) of infancy, and they will AT LAST feel worthy of a woman’s adoration. With each trial and error, an unquenchable, painful, sense of longing inside, ensures one will remain undaunted in this search.
Heterosexual females who lacked consistent, nurturant affection during their earliest weeks and months of life seek this maternal-type bond with a male counterpart, as well. If women could come to accept and understand that no man can fill this void, they’d likely get the professional help they’ve needed lifelong, to heal it.
While a man may have the capacity to be especially sensitive and caring to a woman he adores, he is rarely able to consistently respond to her intrinsic needs stemming from infancy, and fill the vacuum an emotionally ill-equipped, unresponsive mother left behind.
Unrealistic emotional expectations are sadly, the root of many broken marriages and relationship bonds that seemingly end for no good reason.