Borderlines routinely upend the lives of millions of men, because they’re allowed to get away with it. Seldom are they punished for larcenous, deceitful or physically abusive behaviors, because most males are reluctant to DO anything about it. If we ask ourselves
I see so much of my own experience in this. The hardest part is deconstructing your relationship with your mother and then seeing the parallels with your current impaired paramour. It's humbling, painful and at the same time enlightening and liberating. But you have to do the hard work and really be brutally honest with yourself. That....is perhaps the very hardest part because of what we 'wish' were true, but reality cannot be denied.
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Johnny Depp trial, borderlines are also liable to shit in your bed too, then blame it on the dog.
I see so much of my own experience in this. The hardest part is deconstructing your relationship with your mother and then seeing the parallels with your current impaired paramour. It's humbling, painful and at the same time enlightening and liberating. But you have to do the hard work and really be brutally honest with yourself. That....is perhaps the very hardest part because of what we 'wish' were true, but reality cannot be denied.
Right you are, Scott.