The greatest advantage I've had in this lifetime, is being smart enough to notice and learn from observing Other People's Mistakes, so I could save myself from making as many of my own.
I always advise clients who think "Happiness" will arrive once they have a baby, to adopt a cat or dog. If you can't learn to deeply love and care for a pet with all the compromises and sacrifices that choice entails, you sure as fuck should never even CONTEMPLATE adding a Human soul to your existence.
The greatest advantage I've had in this lifetime, is being smart enough to notice and learn from observing Other People's Mistakes, so I could save myself from making as many of my own.
I always advise clients who think "Happiness" will arrive once they have a baby, to adopt a cat or dog. If you can't learn to deeply love and care for a pet with all the compromises and sacrifices that choice entails, you sure as fuck should never even CONTEMPLATE adding a Human soul to your existence.
Much better to GROW in love over a considerable amount of time, than "FALL in love."