People with BPD traits never admit to being wrong. It's always "the customer's fault," it's "the client's fault" (and trust me, far too many therapists think and operate this way). When a crisis or setback hits a couple, Borderlines always blame their spouse~ no matter WHAT has happened. But why does this occur? Healthy, normal people with decent ego strength and self-esteem, can hold themselves accountable. They can admit they've made a mistake. They're willing to make amends for their errors. Not Borderlines.
The Borderline's Crucible
The Borderline's Crucible
The Borderline's Crucible
People with BPD traits never admit to being wrong. It's always "the customer's fault," it's "the client's fault" (and trust me, far too many therapists think and operate this way). When a crisis or setback hits a couple, Borderlines always blame their spouse~ no matter WHAT has happened. But why does this occur? Healthy, normal people with decent ego strength and self-esteem, can hold themselves accountable. They can admit they've made a mistake. They're willing to make amends for their errors. Not Borderlines.