To Trust or NOT to Trust~ an issue with which far too many struggle.
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Ya can't make up your mind to trust someone, or be vulnerable with 'em. Vulnerability comes thru learning another is trust-worthy, and having enough history together that's proven you can RELY on it. I had a young male client many years ago, who stated he was "trying to be vulnerable" with the woman he was dating. Anyone who asks you to be open or vulnerable with 'em, has no fucking idea about genuine intimacy, and what it takes to BUIILD it!
To Trust or NOT to Trust~ an issue with which far too many struggle.
To Trust or NOT to Trust~ an issue with which…
To Trust or NOT to Trust~ an issue with which far too many struggle.
Ya can't make up your mind to trust someone, or be vulnerable with 'em. Vulnerability comes thru learning another is trust-worthy, and having enough history together that's proven you can RELY on it. I had a young male client many years ago, who stated he was "trying to be vulnerable" with the woman he was dating. Anyone who asks you to be open or vulnerable with 'em, has no fucking idea about genuine intimacy, and what it takes to BUIILD it!