Beneath all your very pertinent points about forming a good relationship with the opposite sex,
I have to add one more very important and relevant fact. The whole point about having sex is about procreation and the continuation of the species. It has its roots in instinct. Instinct is
deeply rooted in motherhood. It is why mothers will instinctively do what ever is necessary for the survival of the latest offspring. e.g. At birth both mother and child communicate with each other in many ways that are not language related. When the baby is hungry it knows how to convey that feeling and the mother responds automatically. It's instinct. Similarly before having sex there is a connection between the mates with their sense of smell of the other partner. That too is evidence of instinct which is very powerful for both partners. All the nice words in the world are not as important as the right instinct. Perhaps that is the root cause why there are sometimes abortions which happen when instinct signals something is not right with the coupling.
Great!
Beneath all your very pertinent points about forming a good relationship with the opposite sex,
I have to add one more very important and relevant fact. The whole point about having sex is about procreation and the continuation of the species. It has its roots in instinct. Instinct is
deeply rooted in motherhood. It is why mothers will instinctively do what ever is necessary for the survival of the latest offspring. e.g. At birth both mother and child communicate with each other in many ways that are not language related. When the baby is hungry it knows how to convey that feeling and the mother responds automatically. It's instinct. Similarly before having sex there is a connection between the mates with their sense of smell of the other partner. That too is evidence of instinct which is very powerful for both partners. All the nice words in the world are not as important as the right instinct. Perhaps that is the root cause why there are sometimes abortions which happen when instinct signals something is not right with the coupling.
And being on the pill destroys this instinct and makes women marry men they end up hating by the time they get pregnant.