You cannot interact with a Borderline in a sane and rational manner. There's no such thing as adult interplay with someone emotionally underdeveloped. Some of us try and try to get through to a BPD partner, relative or friend about important feelings, viewpoints and relationship conflicts, and we do our level best to be ultra considerate and careful with our words so as not to further inflame them or cause harm~ but to no avail.
"Listen, and understand! That Terminator is out there! It can't be bargained with. It can't be reasoned with. It doesn't feel pity, or remorse, or fear. And it absolutely will not stop... ever, until you are dead!"
"Listen, and understand! That Terminator is out there! It can't be bargained with. It can't be reasoned with. It doesn't feel pity, or remorse, or fear. And it absolutely will not stop... ever, until you are dead!"
- Kyle Reese on BPD (1984)