I once wrote an article called, "THE BORDERLINE WAIF~ Rescuing the Woman who DOESN'T want to be saved." Not everyone DOES.
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The truth is, you can bend over backwards trying to save someone from their pain or troubles, but the Borderline Waif identifies as a Victim. Without routinely creating incidents of struggle and strife, they feel anxious, which triggers their compulsions to self-sabotage in order to quell their fears of the UNKNOWN (feeling contented and happy).
I once wrote an article called, "THE BORDERLINE WAIF~ Rescuing the Woman who DOESN'T want to be saved." Not everyone DOES.
I once wrote an article called, "THE…
I once wrote an article called, "THE BORDERLINE WAIF~ Rescuing the Woman who DOESN'T want to be saved." Not everyone DOES.
The truth is, you can bend over backwards trying to save someone from their pain or troubles, but the Borderline Waif identifies as a Victim. Without routinely creating incidents of struggle and strife, they feel anxious, which triggers their compulsions to self-sabotage in order to quell their fears of the UNKNOWN (feeling contented and happy).