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What I like about this post is the part about vibrations. “You will never meet a genuinely empowered individual who has hooked-up with someone who’s not, because they’re simply not a vibrational match.“ Now that I’m happy and content with life, I’ve noticed a multitude of bridges evaporating. No, not even burning. The bridges just went away.

Of course, these bridges extended to mentally ill people, mostly fools who voted for Kamala. However, not all. Living in San Francisco, the less depressed and authentic I become, the more the liberals go away. For the past nine years, I’ve performed music & comedy on stage along the Left Coast, constantly getting infected by the diseased “victims” of America.

These individuals have actively worked to kill my career and to isolate me into suicide. I guess making pro-Trump / anti-stupidity jokes was a “bad” idea (it wasn’t). My so-called friends revealed their bigotry and decided I am enemy number one because I voted for Trump; they split on me, switching from love to pure hatred. After all, I voted for Hitler 2.0 in their blind eyes, so surely I’m subhuman and deserve to die. Right.

I don’t want to call them stupid because that’s not a fair assessment. As a former IQ tester, I know the deal. These liberals are sick. Now, imagine a drunk person taking an IQ test. They’ll perform worse than if they were sober because the inebriation causes them to become disoriented. Therefore, intoxication can temporarily reduce intelligence.

The liberals are all but permanently disoriented because they never sober up. Doing so would require ditching atheism, which most leftists wear as a badge of honor. So, what I’ve noticed since the election as well as my escape from depression is that the vibes have shifted; and now I’m alone.

It’s soul-opening to look back and realize that I was surrounding myself with diseased people in Seattle & San Francisco’s open mic scenes. I’m a tolerant person, so I was willing to put up with liberal expression. At the same time, the reason I was gravitating toward those scenes was my own sickness. I was mentally ill in my own ways; and if I were healthy like I am now, I would have never walked into those venues nor associated with those people.

I’ve also lost connection with some Republicans because they’re Catholics. Fact is, Catholics are intoxicated in their own way - some worse than others. I felt surprised three weeks ago when I texted two of my life-long Catholic friends, both of whom despise liberal ideology, simply saying, “goodbye.”

Why would I cut off two seemingly great friendships with smart people? Was I splitting or discarding? No. Truth is, I realized that these “friends” were no longer a vibrational match. They are abusers who are approaching the age of 40 wifeless because of their limiting, soul-crushing religion. Thank God Trump isn’t Catholic!

So, the point of writing this is to acknowledge what you said about vibrational matches. Now that I’m (mostly) mentally healthy, the diseased liberals and religious fools of the world repel like a magnet; and it’s all good. I’m never really alone because I have God; and our connection continues to improve as my doubt in God dissipates.

If you knew a dance hall was filled with sick, infectious people, would you go in? I would like to think the answer is no. Sane people try to stay healthy, and they avoid contaminated areas. It’s not a matter of hatred nor discrimination. Smart people avoid sickness. Liberals, most religious folk, and frankly most USAers are infecting one-another.

Our schools, hospitals, churches, entertainment venues, government institutions, streets… they’re infested with bad vibes. It’s no wonder that the majority of people present as Cluster B. NPD, BPD, HPD, & ASPD are a result of infection of the mind. Thought viruses lead to disordered behavior. These thoughts spread, polluting the brains of children who grow up thinking mental sickness & abusive, destructive behavior are normal.

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Shari Schreiber MA's avatar

You're spot on with most of this reply, and thanks for your contribution. I believe some magical thinking enters in, sometimes where it shouldn't. Aside from your personal victories within the realm of repelling (crazy) people as you've evolved and gotten healthier, it's not necessarily a given, across the board. What I've told my clients is, the healthier and more whole (emotionally) You become, your circle of friends shrinks. The upside is, you having built a far more nourishing, friendly and supportive relationship bond with YOU, so hanging out "alone" means being WITH yourself, not BY yourself. In essence, you are always with your own best friend.

In addition, my personal and clinical experience has proven that toxic people don't 'magically vanish' from our environment just because we've outdistanced them in context of having acquired solid emotional or psychological well-being. The KEY here, is that we have indeed grown steadily repulsed by them, so Our attraction to Them virtually evaporates. It's a simple distinction, yet an important one.

Attraction is never a passive issue. It's an active one. "Why am I still attracting assholes, after getting healthier as a result of all these years of therapy?!" is a sentence I've heard from dozens of people. Don't get me started on the deficits of 'psychotherapy' in context of resolving/healing core trauma... but all that aside, just because assholes are attracted to us, we are not obliged to be attracted to THEM. With adequate emotional development, comes stellar discernment.

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Brian Pinchback's avatar

In a sense we create our own universe. What amazes me is the vast array of talent which is to be found in human species. ...e.g. art, literature, music, science, sporting skills etc.

We are not all the same.

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