Sitemap - 2024 - Shari’s Newsletter
Why are some folks attracted to chaos and crisis?
The "Wrath of God" ~and other things that go 'bump' in the night
Have you ever tried to share your deepest thoughts or feelings with a toddler?
Escape by Suicide~ the ONLY choice an acutely tormented man can fathom.
Life, and other things your parents never taught you about.
Still searching for the meaning of Life?
Under the banner of, coming outta the ether
People say, “truth hurts” ~but DOES it?
Entitlement issues~ the secret killer of dreams
WISHFUL THINKING VS OUR PURSUIT OF "HAPPINESS"
"Will I EVER be able to receive the love I've needed?"
EXISTENTIAL CRISIS: It feels a bit like death, but it's actually a Rebirth.
A bit of knowledge can be a powerful thing~ particularly if you're a writer.
'Cause in today's world, a bit of levity goes a long way!
WHY buy the cow, when ya can get the milk for free?!
Why have a MOUTH, if you're only gonna use it to eat?!
The NON-Compliant Client: Therapist Ineptitude~ or Client Resistance?
God gives us only what we can handle~ bad OR good.
Angry? Sad? Go on, and BITCH about it!
Ya can't heal the Heart of a person, by operating on their mind.
The term, "loser" is often bandied about casually~ but that doesn't mean it's accurately used.
I awoke today with a tad more energy and enthusiasm, which inspired THIS.
How the twig is bent, so grows the tree
When interactions feel awkward or uncomfortable, do ya fight for what's right, or flee?
Calling 'misinformation,' on Robert Malone.
No matter HOW bad it gets Anxiety issues stay entrenched, until we're willing to heal.
The Inevitable fallout bourn by Highly Adaptable Humans.
On this day 3 years ago ~ a Facebook post that's still relevant today.
What's changed in the past 4 years? Not a fucking thing~ but idiots call it "progress."
DO you love to be needed~ or NEED to be loved?
Are YOU continuing to feed your Panic Monster?
Considering having a baby? The Reality is NOTHING like your Fantasy about it.
What's REALLY holding you back from loving and being loved?
CAN we even remember what "normal" feels like?
No News is ALWAYS Bad News, when ya have ADD traits.
PEOPLE-PLEASING: The Too-Polite Plight.
Brilliance versus Arrogance~ a battle to the bitter end.
The Socially Constipated: Are they the Exceptions, or the Rule?
Busy Minds are the Devil's Workshop.
"NO GOOD DEED GOES UNPUNISHED"
With BPD Waifs, ya better shelve your fantasies of actually HELPING them.
THE MISSING LINK: Why Happiness is elusive to so many bright people.
PASSIVE AGGRESSION: The #1 killer of intimacy.
Is this the Real Life? Is this just Fantasy?
The Male Borderline~ Surviving the CRASH after your CRUSH (book preview excerpt)
IS LOVE REALLY A "SECOND-HAND EMOTION"?
Psychotherapy vs PURGING Emotional Pain
In Praise of Oft-Forgotten Human CONDUITS
Must we murder the Indecision Monster?
How Great Writers KILL Their Reading Audience.
The BPD onslaught has existed since the beginning of time.
A "normal life" isn't anything you should anticipate having, with a Borderline.
The incalculable benefits of SHOCK TREATMENT
Psychotherapy and the BPD Client
The SHOCKING TRUTH Addiction Recovery Programs NEVER Want You to Know:
We cannot WILL ourselves to be ready for change, even if it's highly beneficial to us.
MUST WE SET "BOUNDARIES" FOR GROWNUPS?
NOBODY can "know" what they haven't yet learned.
Can you be on the same page (or even in the same chapter) with a Borderline?
Do ya really KNOW your partner?
MID-LIFE CRISIS: Legitimate~ or merely a Societal Construct?
BPD females get away with murder, because weak, insecure men let 'em!